The Messenger, Don't shoot him!

I receive these daily messages from The Love Messenger, below is today's June 10, 2011: "Ever wondered when faced with choices, decisions... when not sure... *You get the best choice when you live decisions to Love. Just a reminder about Love: Love is supportive (of each other - those involved in the choice) Love doesn't try to change, nor control anyone, yet it supports growth Love is accepting of so perceived flaws by seeing the greatness of that which is perfecting itself Love is unconditional yet it doesn't insist upon unconditional circumstances Love is respectful of boundaries Love supports expression of individuality Love always meets the other half way even if at times it may have to go all the way Love is committed, loyal and rejoices in integrity Love is open and sincere it doesn't judge yet it sees the truth and loves anyway Love is generous yet wise to see the foolishness of giving where gifts are not appreciated and cherished and Love is best understood when you see that no matter what you are loved ♥ - and here comes the paradox of Love, you see there aren't really any choices to make...when you think about it... " All of the above is true, yet all of the above can be used as a crutch in so far as it can be used to Rationalize, instead of being used as a truth to heal, Rationalization is not a good thing, Healing is a good thing.